-I would like to gain at least a bachelor's degree, if not higher. Should I enroll in an associates program first? Or should I jump into a bachelor's program to start with, if I know that is what I want to study?
It wouldn't hurt to get your associates first just to have something to show for yourself along the way. In fact many two year degrees will transfer into 4 year schools like Peru State College or Southwestern College. I got my AS first then went on to my BS. It saved a lot of money.
-Any advice, or explanation as to what the difference in a paralegal degree and a legal studies degree are? Basically the same thing? Totally different?
Paralegal and legal studies (as I know them) are kind of like brothers, very similar to outside observation but once you get to know them... different. A Paralegal degree is designed to teach someone to conduct legal research, documentation and various ideals of jurisprudence. Legal studies will touch on jurisprudence but likely include various vocational training for careers in corrections, law enforcement, homeland security etc. For example http://www.cup.edu/majors/alpha_major.jsp?degree_type=0&class_type=online
Personally, from what you do it sounds like Criminal Justice would be a good fit as it covers aspects of law, criminal procedure, criminology, victimology and of course psychology. Criminal Justice is something of a mix between a law and psychology degree and generally an excellent fit for jobs like what you have described yourself as being into. A law degree obviously is more concerned with the legal aspects of the matter than the psychological aspects but make no mistake, police, corrections, supervision and security is all about psychology.
-If I go with an associates to start off, should I use a school that I can later attain a bachelor's from? Or is it that big of a deal, as long as the school in regionally accredited?
Honestly that would be nice, but not really necessary. Once I earned my BS in Criminal Justice I never list my AS degree in Criminal Justice anyways as it would be redundant. It is assumed that if you have a BSCJ you also have the equivalent of an ASCJ but that's my opinion on the matter. I received my ASCJ from Ashworth College, but unless you have plenty of time to twiddle your thumbs I'd look elsewhere. They do not have the best customer service and for a while I had a time finding someone to accept the transfer of credits at a regionally accredited school. On the plus side, they are dirt cheap so as an investment you risk very little other than opportunity cost.
I guess I'll leave it here, and see what any of you have to say. Thank you so much in advance for your replies.
Personally, I'd look at Charter Oak State College or Fort Hayes State University for an Associates in general studies, Associate of Science or Associate of Arts. If you have a major area of interest and would like to study in that field, use the degree finder for Associates of Criminal Justice. I've looked at Post as well and they look top notch if you really want to get into the law portion of your field then later go on to a BS in Criminal Justice or whatever. If you do that an AS in Legal Studies and a BS in Criminal Justice can and should be listed separately on your resume and will give the impression of a solid legal foundation along with Criminal Justice skills, at least in my eyes.
Whatever you do, don't beat about the bush, anything is better than nothing and you could do a lot worse than Post, I really like that legal studies program but I have to say that they are a tad on the expensive side. You may wish to consider a less expensive route at this stage in your academic career.