Hi There! I think that any choice will have issues that may rub one the wrong way. I am in University of Phoenix, and at first I admit I was skeptical. I heard many drawbacks and complaints, but I also heard good things too. Yes, I heard/read more negative than good, and was about *this* close to not going through with it. I was talking to a friend of mine who pointed out that in life it's usually it's easier to find negative information over the positive, as unfortunate of a truth that is, why should I expect school to be any different. She really did have a point, and encouraged me to stick with it for a while until I formed my own opinion. So I did, and it took me a while to get used to the good and the bad, and it took me a bit longer to logically evaluate what I felt was the lesser of the two evils, so to speak. I have now been doing UoP for almost 7 months, and overall I am glad I stuck with it!!
I agree with what you said though, about feeling like you are being sold something. One of the biggest problems with UoP is, since they are a for-profit school,they have come accross as salespeople rather than educators (and really, they are both) While that turned me off quite a bit, I have found many strong points of UoP, and for me the advantages far surpass the disadvantages.
Good luck in making the choice that is best for you 