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Vanessa is a 24-year-old stay-at-home mom, wife, military spouse, and veteran. She started her online education while she was still in the Navy. After receiving an honorable discharge, getting married, and having two beautiful girls in two years, she is still going strong with her education at Ashford University. She is currently doubling up on classes with hopes to attend graduation December 2009 with a Bachelor's in Business Administration.

What exactly is “college material”?

I was listening to the radio today on the way to work and heard the story of a United States soldier who was posthumously awarded the Medal of Honor for throwing himself onto a grenade in order to save his 4 fellow soldiers inside of a vehicle. In a news interview the parents told of this soldier joining the Army after realizing that he "wasn't college material" and it got me to asking what exactly is college material?

I guess you can say that I am particularly sensitive regarding this topic after spending half of a decade thinking that I wasn't college material after being told so by so by some people whose entire job it was to know the difference. I was told that by a couple of different teachers in high school, I was told that by a school counselor and eventually told that by an enrollment counselor at a community college. I've since come to the conclusion that they were all wrong and I think my academic success has proven so, at least to this point. I haven't exactly gone for my PhD yet but I think we can call it a lock anyhow.

So what exactly is college material? I honestly believe that anyone who is of good, sound mind can be successful in college. Being college material is more a matter of will and drive to be successful in college than it is a matter of intelligence and unfortunately too few people realize this. I seriously doubt this American hero lacked will or drive and I am certain he had the fortitude and intelligence to have gone to college if indeed it was something he desired for himself.

And perhaps that is the point, perhaps by stating about themselves "I am not college material" what people really mean is "I just don't want to go to college" which is perfectly understandable. However should anyone at all ever make such a proclamation over you or anyone you know of sound mind, then you are in the presence of a true idiot my friend. And by idiot I don't mean the guy being told he isn't college material.

As a side note I'd like to say thank you to the family of Army Private First Class Ross McGinnis for his service and all of their sacrifice, he is a true American hero.

http://fieldnotes.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2008/06/04/1113296.aspx

http://www.arlingtoncemetery.net/ramcginnis.htm

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Published Thursday, June 05, 2008 12:06 AM by Cajun

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Victoria said:

I don't believe 18-year-olds should make the assumption that college is an appropriate next step. Many high school graduates enroll without considering all options, or what's best for them. A lot of folks I know attended college but realized that it wasn't good for them at the time, and they withdrew. It's a costly assumption that college will make sense for you at 17, 18, 19, etc.

June 5, 2008 10:50 AM
 

Drew said:

I know that when I graduated high school I wasn't "college material" but once I got some discipline in the military and became more mature I know that I got a lot more from college than many of those who were "college material" right out of high school.  

June 5, 2008 2:11 PM
 

Cajun said:

I agree with both of you.  I was an abysmal student right out of high school but as I grew personally and mentally I eventually realized that I could be a success in school despite what anyone else thought.  It is a decision that only you can make about yourself, certainly nobody, even those whose profession it is to know can tell you whether you are college material or not.  In fact I don't even like the phrase "college material" as it sounds too permanent and we as humans are ever growing or evolving into the next phase of our life.  We change whether we want to or not and really being “college material” is more about where in that evolution you are and whether or not you actually desire to go to school.  It certainly isn’t a fixed condition and certainly isn’t something that someone else can proclaim over you or make an accurate judgment on.  

June 5, 2008 6:17 PM
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About Cajun

Cajun is 31-years-old and currently employed as a Project Analyst for an Information Technology department at a major financial firm. He has recently changed careers after spending 7 years in Federal Law enforcement of which he spent 5 years as a supervisor. His management experience combined with the MBA he finished in October, 2008 allowed for a career change even in the face of these uncertain economic times.

Cajun was introduced to the concept of distance education while working full-time as a law enforcement officer with a demanding and unpredictable schedule, obtaining an Associate of Science degree in Criminal Justice from Ashworth College, a Bachelor of Science degree in Criminal Justice from Southwestern College of Winfield, KS graduating Magna Cum Laude and a Master of Business Administration with an emphasis in Organizational Leadership from Ashford University. To further his new career Cajun will be working towards a Master of Science in Management of Information Systems with an emphasis in Project Management from Bellevue University.

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Vanessa is a 24-year-old stay-at-home mom, wife, military spouse, and veteran. She started her online education while she was still in the Navy. After receiving an honorable discharge, getting married, and having two beautiful girls in two years, she is still going strong with her education at Ashford University. She is currently doubling up on classes with hopes to attend graduation December 2009 with a Bachelor's in Business Administration.

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